Monday, April 30, 2007

Take A Break



Best Florist In Malaysia

http://www.love.com.my/

Suddenly i just type in www.love.com.my and i hope it is a dating site like www.love.com, but surprisingly i found out that the website belong to a florist in Malaysia.

This is the quote from the shop :

LOVE.com.my Sdn Bhd is a MALAYSIA FLORIST specialising in free delivery of fresh flowers, Hand Bouquets, Flower Basket, Fruits & Flowers, Gifts & Flowers, Congratulatory Flora Stands and Cakes to most areas within Kuala Lumpur, Selangor, Klang Valley and main cities in Malaysia. We provide better designs of fresh flowers bouquets and arrangements and supply them at cheaper prices than other florists in Malaysia.

Please browse through our online florist catalogue to select the bouquet or arrangement of your choice. In the event that you fail to find that special something, you may call us or email us to tailor make your gift. We will also be willing to go all the way to grab your special cake, message card, teddy bears or anything you like. Try us out today!

Delivery on the same day is possible provided order is received before 3p.m. local time.

Friday, April 27, 2007

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

Love Spell

Every time I look at you
my heart skips a beat
I wonder if you know, my love,
that my heart is at your feet
I leave it there for you to do
whatever that you wish
You could take my heart,
and love me,
Or just leave me in this bliss.

- Ana Martinez -

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

I Love You- Many Different Language

Afrikaans Ek is lief vir jou!
Albanian Te dua!
Amharic Afekrishalehou!
Arabic Ohiboke / Nohiboka
Armenian Yes kez si'rumem!
Basque Maite zaitut!
Bengali Ami tomake bahlobashi!
Bosnian Volim te!
Bulgarian Obicham te!
Catalan T'estimo!
Creole Mi aime jou!
Croatian Volim te!
Czech Miluji tev!
Danish Jeg elsker dig!
Dutch Ik hou van je!
English I love you!
Esperanto Mi amas vin!
Estonian Mina armastan sind!
Farsi Tora dost daram!
Filipino Iniibig kita!
Finnish (Mä) rakastan sua!
French Je t'aime!
Frisian Ik hald fan dei!
Galician Querote!
German Ich liebe dich!
Greek S'ayapo!
Gujarati Hoon tane pyar karoochhoon! tane chaahuN chhuN!
Hawaiian Aloha wau ia 'oe!
Hebrew Anee ohev otakh / Anee ohevet otkha / Anee ohev otkha / Anee ohevet otakh
Hindi Mai tumase pyar karata hun / Mai tumase pyar karati hun
Hungarian Szeretlek!
Icelandic Eg elska thig!
Indonesian Saya cinta padamu!
Irish t'a gr'a agam dhuit!
Italian Ti amo!
Japanese Kimi o ai shiteru!
Korean Dangsinul saranghee yo!
Latin Te amo!
Latvian Es tevi milu!
Lithuanian As tave myliu!
Malaysian Saya cintamu!
Mandarin Wo ai ni!
Marshallese Yokwe Yuk!
Norwegian Jeg elsker deg!
Polish Kocham ciebie!
Portuguese Eu te amo!
Romanian Te iubesc!
Russian Ya tyebya lyublyu!
Sanskrit twayi snihyaami
Serbian Volim te!
Sesotho Kiyahurata!
Slovak Lubim ta!
Slovenian Ljubim te!
Spanish Te amo!
Swahili Nakupenda!
Swedish Jag älskar dig!
Tagalog Mahal kita!
Thai Phom rug khun / Chan rug khun
Turkish Seni seviyorum!
Ukrainian Ya tebe kokhayu!
Urdu Main tumse muhabbat karta hoon!
Vietnamese Anh yeu em / Em yeu an
Welsh Rwy'n dy garu di!
Yiddish Kh'hob dikh lib!
Zulu Ngiyakuthanda!

Online Soulmate - Poem

She was the yin to his yang.
He was the dot to her "i".

When she was black or white,
he was her colors in between.

He finished her sentence
she felt his thoughts.

They understood from the inside out
because that's how they began.

She was the words and he the notes
together, an endless song.

He was her real after surreal dreams
she the pier where he anchored his soul.

He was the rope when all else pulled her away
she was his lamp in the dark.

Hers were the blue that mirrored the brown
in the looking glass eyes of the heart.

She was the soft to his hard
and when the door had closed
oh, when the lights blinked out ...

they were as both fire and ice
blurring the lines
between the she and the he

until he was time
she the clock
and together, an eternity.




So, what is Cyberlove?

Thanks to the late 20th century technology the Danish Maria and Martijn of Holland met on a chatline. For months they've talked and sent letters to each other with the help of their computers as they found themselves falling head over heels in love. It was then they've decided to meet in the real, not only the virtual, world. It was not easy to arrange as the young man and his lady were separated by 700 very real kilometers, but the date was a success and Maria and Martijn have been living together happily ever since. They've created a home page to let the world know how they've found happiness via the Internet and introduce couples who've met under similar circumstances.

MsGreenFields had hoped for a similar romance when she met her love on the internet. They've arranged to meet. The lonely young woman felt she'd finally found the man with whom she can live with in harmony and realize her dreams. Their personalities and interests were so similar and even their goals seemed to match well. She was not disappointed in his physical appearance either - the man was elegantly dressed, and the romantic champagne dinner, dance and the man's compliments and attention toward her during the evening all served to fuel her feelings of happy expectation. What could have been the happiest of nights turned into a nightmare when they got to her apartment. The man she just spent a wonderful evening with turned into Mr. Hyde and brutally raped her and disappeared. She didn't even have the opportunity to report the incident to the police. What could she have said about the man she knew only as StandByMe through electronic contact and who supposedly, just arrived from Las Vegas. More than likely, StandByMe continues to prowl cyberspace looking for new victims probably under a new nickname and, of course, unpunished.

These two stories are merely two samples of the many experiences you may find on different web sites that feature the topic cyberlove.

Throughout history men and women had used a variety of means to find each other. Internet romance according to some is a bizarre method, and others it is a 'natural' for the 90's, to meet potential mates. Reading enough pages of people's experiences one could consider a decent length novel, has formed an interesting picture in me of internet romance.

Romances formed on the internet follow a characteristic script. The development of emotional intimacy is a long process, sometimes taking several months. "Love at first byte" is rare although there are examples (Steven J. Baumrucher wrote a book by that title recounting his own experiences details of which may be read on the net). The initial light exchanges, whether by e-mail or in chat rooms, are generally followed by increasingly self revealing topics, where after a while the two strangers perceive each other as a true friend. Hearts open and an avalanche of e-mail crosses cyberspace carrying literary quality, electric messages are even enhanced with verses, virtual gifts (flowers, kisses, animated pictures). Could any heart with romantic inclinations resist? When you reach for the mouse with sweaty palms and butterflies in the stomach to look in the in-box for new mail - there's just no way to escape the fact - love has arrived.

In more fortunate cases the couple exchanged digitalized photos of themselves through the course of correspondence. This helps to ease the jolt of the initial meeting - which is a critical moment in every cyber love story. It is easy to understand if you realize what hopes and ideals our hero nursed up to that moment. (This reminds me of my colleague who showed up to meet his blind date - through a newspaper ad. He stood on the corner as agreed with a bouquet of roses when the girl approached. Poor Bela could not have slipped away unnoticed, but had a quick escape by saying - 'hello, unfortunately my friend could not come, but he wanted you to have these flowers.) Mr. Romeo must have felt far worse when after corresponding with his e-mail love for the past six months stepped off the plane to find out that she is not really a she, but a transvestite. That was the one minor detail his 'sweetheart' neglected to mention.

Whether in real life or in cyber space, there is real pain and disappointment that accompanies love or what was presumed as love. Many chose anonymity of meeting electronically thinking the distance provides a cushioning from the usual pains of a relationship. This is not true. Those who don't observe the rules of caution can suffer real and long healing scars. If we want to protect ourselves from the possible traps it would be useful to visit the romancesite.com website, where we can find many good advice and useful tips on 'how' and 'how not' to meet or flirt on the net. The web page contains real stories giving an opportunity to learn from the mistake of others and have a better chance to recognize the suspicious characters lurking in cyberspace.

Don't think the only danger to your emotions is the lies your partner may tell. Sometimes it may be what we do to delude ourselves that bring negative consequences. While these internet relationships are real enough the invisibility of the partner must be countered somehow and this results in generous doses of fantasizing for some people. There are those who easily lend themselves to daydreaming and loose their sense of reality. These people are prone to adorn their loved one with characteristics and appearance of a hero from a novel. It is difficult to escape from this dream back into reality unharmed. After the first kiss the prince turns into a frog and the story comes to an unexpected conclusion.

How does a cyber romance vary from a real life romance? Perhaps one significant difference is that communication plays such a large part. Words that convey feelings have enormous effect. While before a real date we fix our hair and our clothes, on the internet we polish our intellect, imagination and personality. In essence the sequence is reversed - first we show our inner beauty and only after it had won victory does the veil fall off the physical vehicle of that personality at the time of that first meeting in person.

It is a popular topic in cyberspace to debate whether or not true love can develop merely on an intellectual level, that is without the physical attraction, the familiarity of the other's appearance? To put it another way: is the physical appearance of the man or woman play a part in the relationship if through the exchange of thoughts and feelings they already fell in love?

Many say it is against the nature of love to be deprived of the sense of sight, the look, the movement, the body language being present. There are those, of course, who favor internet relationships claiming that the intensity of the emotional relationship that develops in such a way is superior to the mere stirring of the flesh.

Whatever the opinion may be on cyberlove - it must be said in favor of the internet that it puts people in touch with people that otherwise would never have met. I never would have suspected that the first person I met by e-mail would be a German chimney sweep to whom after a year of correspondence, although no emotional, but a common interest still binds.

There are examples where a real life relationship is damaged because one party gets entangled in a virtual romance that may turn serious. I remember a local newspaper carrying a story of a mother of three, who left her husband and children to live with a man who webbed her heart through cyberspace. Her story is not singular by any means. Ann Landers established a club for men and women who perceive the net as the demon that destroyed their marriage or lost their partner because they discovered Mr. or Ms. Right on the web. These letters and Ann Landers' responses may be found online at the Chicago Tribune web site.

It is silly to perceive the net as a demon, when we determine how we meet its challenges. While there are those who can use the net to their advantage extracting useful information, there are those who become addicts losing common sense, hopping from chat room to chat room, writing piles of e-mails full of lies to chosen victims and the virtual reality, the flirtations become a part of their everyday lives as some disease. One thing is true - the net is very addictive. According to the confession of a multiple substance addict, it was easier to give up cocaine than the IRC.

If, despite all we've said, there are those who still chose the internet as the means to find a partner, they can try the numerous IRC channels, Java chat rooms, the ICQ, online matchmaking services, correspondence groups or in a variety of mailing lists and newsgroups (alt.romance, alt.soulmates) or place their graphically constructed personal home page on-line through which one may convey to the world any information desired. There are many available choices, one need only live with the opportunity.

In any case - be cautious that you don't end up like Mr. Romeo. Keep your eyes open off-line as well - turn off the machine and go to a dance or a club, because most women still expect to be courted in a real, old fashioned, romantic way.



Sunday, April 22, 2007

Question, question and question

After you have had a few dates with someone and you think it might be going somewhere, you begin to ask more serious questions about their childhood, family, job etc.
Eventually the relationship might progress to where the really tough questions must be asked. Like "have you ever slept with someone without using a condom" or "how much debt do you have"? There is no easy way to bring up these questions.
Recently, I received a copy of Michael Webb's newest book, 1000 Questions for Couples: What you absolutely must know about the person you are with. This book is going to make those difficult questions much easier to ask.
The questions start off easy like "Has anyone dear to you died? How did you handle it" and "About what things are you most selfish." They slowly progress (just like your relationship should) until you get to those questions that you simply can't avoid if you are going to commit your life to living with someone. There are questions on drug addictions, abuse, child rearing, finances and lots of questions about sex. And because these questions are coming from a book, you don't feel like "you" are asking them.
A special bonus that I really liked was the option to get 3-5 of the book's questions emailed to me each day. That way I could forward the questions on to my beloved and we could each read over them and forward the answers to each other that night. I can see where this would be very valuable for those in long distance relationships.
While there are a lot of questions in this book that are crucial for couples in the dating stage, the majority of the questions are useful for people who are already married. If you value your relationship, I urge you to ask these 1000 Questions for Couples. Click here.

How to drive your men wild

If someone were to offer you more love, more romance, and more passion... each and every day for the rest of your life... would you be willing to give up just one dinner out with your partner?
I work together with Rassiter Romance Research to bring you some great books about how to improve your love life. Their books are mostly written for women but being a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) I also got my fair share of information out of their books...
When ever I tell my readers, like yourself, about a great book, I make sure that I've read it first and also like it. If it doesn't pass my standards, then it's no good. I've got several other books and products lined up which I wanted to promote but I'm still undecided. The cell phone booster which I ordered arrived last week and I'm still testing it. If the results are good, I'll let you know how to get one. Anyways, I'm rambling again.
Ok, lets get back to that romance advice. The main book has tells you 17 different romance techniques. Those secrets show you how to drive your partner wild. It's some good stuff. If you'd like to take it one step further, then you must read the 69 ways to tantalize your partner (a free bonus). Herbs for lovers is the third book in the package.
For less than the cost of a nice dinner out for you and your mate, we'll reveal to you the secrets and techniques that will help your relationship soar... and let you enjoy the kind of togetherness and romance you've always longed for.
Take all the time you need to put this wonderful 3-book package to work for you and your mate. If for any reason... any reason at all... you are unhappy with your purchase... we will promptly refund every penny you paid. The books are yours to keep! Click here.

Love Test

This is the link to do the Love Test :

http://www.lovetest.com/loveteststart.html

This is for the numerology Love Test
http://www.lovetest.com/numerology.html

This is for the termometer for Love:
http://www.lovetest.com/thermometer.html

This For the Love Fortune:
http://www.lovetest.com/lovefortune.html

Check your compatibility with your patner:
http://www.lovetest.com/compatibility.html

Wanna calculate your love:
http://www.lovecalculator.be/

Language of the love:
http://www.lovetest.com/languageoflove.html

Saturday, April 21, 2007

How to Appologize

How to Apologizeby haQ ©In the last few years, it has come to my attention that some people are really bad at apologizing. I’m not entirely sure why this is, but has become increasingly obvious to me. Apologies can easily seem half-assed and meaningless, but a real apology is priceless. It’s not about groveling for forgiveness; it’s about showing remorse and trying to make the situation better.
Below, you will find some key points of how to apologize to a woman. Men usually don’t comment on the quality of an apology, nor do they seem to criticize an apology when they receive one; therefore, it is safe to assume that this form works for both genders, although I would be happy to hear if any men contradict this.
1) The first step is to actually utter the words “I’m sorry”. Now, this may sound rather simple, but it’s almost scary how many people have a hard time with those words. Of course, the words themselves are not enough. If you scream them, or say them in a way that sound devoid of emotion, these words will be meaningless. They only have power when they are uttered with a tone of remorse.
2) Next, you must acknowledge what you did. This can be a range of things, but should always include the action/words that caused this apology to be necessary, as well as whatever pain and suffering came along with that. It is not enough to just apologize for some vague thing — this step is necessary for making the person who has been hurt (sometimes both parties) feel that their concerns have been heard.
3) Beyond that, you must admit that your actions were wrong. Sometimes just using that word can make all the difference. If you skip that part, the other person will assume that you feel justified in your actions, and the apology will be nullified. Of course, there are situations where you do not think all your actions were wrong. In this case, state those actions you do believe were wrong, and clarify your others in the next step.
4) Now, it is necessary to explain your intent. Usually, when people do something that necessitates an apology, they were trying to do something else and something went wrong. As such, it is important to explain what you were trying to do when things went awry. Of course, it is important to explain that this is NOT AN EXCUSE! You are not trying to get away with what you did, but just make it clear that it was not your intention to upset the other person. You can even say outright, “This is not an excuse. I want to explain why I did what I did, but I am not trying to say that what I did was the right thing to do.”
5) This is the part that most people forget to do. This when it is important to explain what the person means to you, and how much you want to make amends. This makes any apology go above and beyond, to the point of actually helping to move towards reconciliation. You wouldn’t apologize if you didn’t want the other person to accept your apology, so make sure they know what your relationship (working, friendship or otherwise) means to you, to let them know that it has some value to you and is worth fixing. If appropriate, this can be a good time to give the person a compliment (that is in some way connected to the precipitating incident) and explain the importance they have in your life; you have hurt this person, it’s time to try to make them feel better.
6) Repeat these steps until your apology is accepted and you are able to make peace with the person.
7) Be open to letting them say what hurt/bothered them. Even if they’ve already told you before. Sometimes they will need to say again why they are upset. PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY SAY! This is what you must mention again in steps two and three. If they feel the need to repeat it, it is probably because they do not feel that you have heard them/understood. If, after repeating step two twice or more, ask them if you have covered everything or left anything out. Remember, you want to make sure they know that they’ve been heard, and sometimes just checking will make them know that this is important to you and that you really want to make sure you understand why they are upset.
At the beginning of the next conversation, it is helpful to just make sure the person is feeling okay. Sometimes, new things bubble up after an apology, and if you want to move forward in peace with that person, just make sure that everything is still as you left it at the end of your apologetic conversation.
Of course, every person has their own style, and specific things that may be more or less important to them. However, if you follow these steps, your apology is more likely to be successful. Now remember, if it is insincere, the other person will know! These steps will only work if you truly feel remorse, and are just unsure of how to express it.